I was standing outside wondering if the bus was going to come and I turned around for some reason and looked back into the lobby of my building. This guy looked at me and widened his eyes and started gesturing to me. I just stared back and I think I looked around, wondering if he was trying to get my attention or someone else’s. I turned back and he nodded like “yeah, you” and mimed shivering (because it’s cold) and gestured back like “come inside because it’s cold.” I just stared at him for another moment and eventually turned away altogether and then went to another bus stop because it was going to be a long wait for the one at that stop. I’m trying to figure out what his angle was. Like. If I wanted to go back inside. I would. I don’t need any encouragement. I don’t need your help.
Maybe just another example (one of two today) of a guy who assumed I wanted to be bffs because I’m wearing lipstick and pink tights. A guy said to me in the Cumby’s today, “your lips match your tights” while I was trying to put sugar in my coffee. I had to tell him no, actually, they don’t. What am I supposed to say to that? Thanks? Especially since they are different colors entirely.